Twins- Fantastic discovery using Past Life Regression

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“My twin sister keeps hitting me and karate chopping me all of the time!” Yes, his mother said in agreement shaking her head. 

Stanley came to see me originally to find the origin of his ADD. He and his family were moving to Texas the following month and his mother wanted to try my work since she had heard success stories for some of Stanley’s friends. We found his ADD roots to be from the Revolutionary War. As many children have offered,” They didn’t see it coming”, refering to the bullet that hit and killed them. Not “seeing” it, brought them into this life with a focus problem.

The last session, Stanley came in pouting and folding his arms as he plopped onto my couch. When I asked him what was the matter, he said, as he had many times before, “my sister just won’t leave me alone! She is so mean to me, hitting me, kicking me and calling me names. I love her and don’t know why she doesn’t love me!” His mother shared that she use to kick him in Utero as well.

I asked if they would be up for a regression to see why Stanley choose to come into this life as a twin. He and his mother eagerly agreed. Twins are always facinating since they all have very specific reasons for incarnating that way. I wondered why Stanley’s sister came in so angry at him.

I regressed Stanley back to a lifetime in the 1960’s. He had a normal childhood except for frequent visits to the doctors. As we progressed he had a normal home life and school life but always at the doctors. When I asked him why he is always at the doctors he said, ” I have a condition. I think it is cancer.” It turned out to be a heart condition. In his twenties he had to have a heart transplant. The doner was a teenage girl who had been in a car accident. A few months after the transplant Stanley died in that life.

On spirit side we find out that the doner was his twin sister in this life. She was so angry to have died at such an early age since she had so many dreams and hopes. We also found out that when she found out that Stanley had died with her heart she was even more angry at wasting her heart. Since the soul resides in our heart she incarnated as Stanley’s twin, caring her anger with her.

I explained to their mom that if they shared the story with Stanley’s sister she could finally let go of the anger. When things come to a conscious place that we didn’t understand before, the emotions could be released and cleared.

We all walked away that night amazed at the incredible twin story.

Please let me know if you are a twin and what interesting issues you have with your twin. Please share!

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Can we treat Children with ADD/ADHD using Past Life Regression Therapy?

 

 

 

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ADD/ADHD has become one of the most common diagnosed problems in our schools. 

This little boy was one of those children that the schools were ready to treat medically, yet when talking to his mother, who said he was so different at home, it was to deaf ears. Luckily he had a mom who cared enough to seek other help since she felt something was amiss.

 

CASE STUDY 

NIGHTMARES AND ACTING OUT AT SCHOOL

 In October of 2002 I received a call from a frantic mother. Her son (we will call Joe), six years old, had been having nightmares every night for the past few months. She said it was the same nightmare, about the same thing each time. He would dream of a war, describing the gunfire and helicopters with missiles on the sides. He would wake up screaming in fear.

The mother also explained her concerns about her son’s school behavior. The teacher told her that whenever he was on line he would push the child behind him, always turning around or getting out of line when told to stay in line.  Also in circle activities he would not stay seated but go to one side of the room and hide. The teacher felt his behavior was probably a form of ADHD and they wanted to test him to see.

 The mother was baffled and horrified since this was so out of character for his behavior at home.

The teacher explained to her that many times children act differently in different environments.

The mother was feeling powerless since the school insisted on testing him with a follow up of medication. She came to see if I could help stop the nightmares and see if he had ADHD.

 I received additional information about their family life, his birth and childhood illnesses.  Nothing seemed unusual that would have baring on either the nightmares or acting out in school. Joe’s mother told me the only shows she allows Joe to watch on T.V.  are Barney or Disney cartoons. She had no idea where he would have seen war guns or helicopters.

 TREATMENT

 Since Joe was only six I decided to have him go into trance by drawing. His mother told me that he loved to draw, and children usually slide into trance easily with this method. I asked Joe if he could draw a picture of the dream he has about the war. He said, sure, and drew an amazing drawing for his age. He drew a picture of soldiers in a trench on one side of the paper, shooting, and soldiers lying dead on the ground. On the other side of the paper, he drew another trench with soldiers shooting back. In the air he drew a helicopter with missiles on the sides. I was so surprised to see how detailed and sophisticated the drawing was.

I asked him who are these soldiers in this trench (left side of paper)? He responded, “Oh, that’s the Chinese.” Again surprised, I said,”Oh, well who are the soldiers in this trench (right side of paper)?  He said, “Oh, that is the Russians.” Again surprised at his knowing the Chinese and Russian Cultures, I asked his mother if she knew he knew of them. She said she didn’t unless he learned this at school. Later we found out they never discussed these cultures in Kindergarten or in first grade.

I asked Joe was he there in the picture? He said “ Yep!” He pointed to the Chinese and said, “ I am in there.” I asked him if he died there? He said, “ No, I went home.”  I asked him where his home was and he turned over the paper to draw another picture. He drew a beautiful picture of a pagoda-looking house, two stick figures he claimed were his parents, and a small bridge over a stream, and another stick figure he said was he.  He told me he lived in that house and that those were his parents. He went home to live there after the war. It was very peaceful. I asked if he died there and he said no. He then proceeded to turn the page to show me where he died.  This time he drew a cemetery with tombstones and rain falling. He pointed to one of the tombstones and said that’s where he died. I asked how did he die and he said, “ A man shot him in the back.” I asked if he knew the man, and he said no. I told him he didn’t have to worry here since no one would shoot him in the back here. I told him it was just a dream and it is over now. I also told him he didn’t need to have the dream any more since we were able to draw it and talk about it.

 Joe and his mother left with promises to report any changes in his dreaming.  We agreed to approach the school behavior in the next session. It was enough for one afternoon. After observing Joe in our session, I was surprised to hear about his school behavior as well. He was a sweet, kind, respectful little boy, who seemed to delight in life. I was curious what the trigger was in school.

 

RESULTS

 Two weeks later, Joe’s mother called all excited. Joe did not have one dream about the war. The nightmares were over. She was most excited that Joe’s teacher called asking what she did at home since Joe was behaving much better at school. He was now able to stand on line without pushing the child behind him or getting out of line and he remained in the circle activities. As we talked I realized that Joe’s acting out to those BEHIND him was a result of being shot in the back. Joe was afraid to have his back turned with someone behind him or he could get shot again. This was not conscious behavior but cellular memory being triggered by the circumstance.  During the circle activities he would go to the other side of the room and hide. Being in a group situation triggered Joe’s cellular memory about being in a group fighting the enemy. He retreated to a trench like safe place in the classroom and hid.  Now he did not have a need to hide any longer since the story was complete. After the regression the trauma was released with the negative emotions, so Joe could behave normally to these situations.  Also, due to this release the dreams were brought to consciousness and therefore no longer manifested subconsciously. Joe was his old self once again and no testing was necessary for ADHD.

 We, as a society have been too quick to assess the behavior of our children when behavior issues present themselves. Medication is offered too readily to treat these problems. Not every child with behavior problems fall into the category of ADD or ADHD. Statistics show that 3 to 5 % of the nations population are diagnosed with these syndromes.  We need to take a harder look at these children and perhaps go to the root of the behavior under hypnosis, to determine if the behavior is even related to this lifetime.

What Lesson have you scripted for this life?

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It is my belief that we design our life before we come to this earth with the help of our guides. We will choose a life that will allow us to learn our main lesson here, complete karma, and resolve our relationships that travel with us over time and space. We usually travel with the same soul group through lifetimes, and even those on the periphery of our life could have been a close relationship in a past life.

Most of us would say that they would never choose the traumas, perhaps the parents, or issues they carry through this life, but we choose on spirit side without an emotional or physical body. We choose what it is we need to learn that will allow us to evolve and expand, which doesn’t always happen unless we are in such discomfort we want to change or change the situation we are in. For instance, if we were abused in this life we may have chosen to be to learn how to speak up for ourselves and not allow it anymore, for we may not have been able to do that in a past life due to cultural expectations. So we know in this life we can finally speak up with out being punished in some way. Once we understand the lesson, which may be speaking our voice, and fulfill it, we won’t have to come back and do it again!

If we look at our patterns here, like possibly choosing emotionally unavailable parents, friends, and lovers, almost always we are here to learn self-love.  This is one of the most difficult lessons to learn since we seem to look outside ourselves for this emotion. We look to others to love us and then when they don’t we unconsciously assume we are unlovable. We accept that we are unlovable sooner than to turn inside and question if we really are loveable. When we really take a look we have many wonderful qualities. The question is always, how am I supposed to love myself. It starts with not taking on others judgments of you. How dare anyone judge you when they have their own faults or issues they need to work on. In speaking up to them and telling them that they hurt you or can’t treat you that way any more will not only empower you (self love) but also teach them that their behavior is unacceptable. You become the teacher they need so they too can grow and evolve.

There are many lessons we come into this life to learn but the one that keeps showing up as a pattern is the main lesson. What have you come here to learn?

Is strength, compassion, truth, trust, love or self-love, creativity, spontaneity, focus, tolerance, or humility? Those are just a few. Sit with yourself and see if you can find your pattern and perhaps your lesson. Let me know what you find.

 

Could I be my deceased Aunt Rose?

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In my work I come across some regressions that I find fascinating and that stay with me over the years. This one had some interesting twists that were validating and confirmed the power of our vows.

The following is a session I had with a client named Samantha. I have set it up as I do in my book, and as I do with my regression sessions. I do this under hypnosis giving the subconscious the intention of what we want to remember.

 INTENTION: Let’s go back to the past to see if you were your father’s sister, Aunt

  Rose, who died before you were born.

On a cold winter day, a week after an evening workshop, Samantha came to my

office with the question she had asked at our prior meeting: “Do you think I could

be my Aunt Rose?”

Although the family rarely spoke about Aunt Rose, from the time Samantha was a child, she loved the teas, that she had with her aunts, who commented that their sister Rose use to sit around enjoying afternoon tea with them.  Her aunts also commented that Samantha reminded them of Rose, in looks and manner.  The picture of Aunt Rose that Samantha brought, showed a remarkable resemblance between them.  We were both excited about the possibility that Samantha had been her Aunt Rose in a prior life.   

Samantha apologized about not knowing much about her aunt, explaining that the family, particularly Samantha’s father, felt uncomfortable talking about Aunt Rose.  All that Samantha knew about her Aunt was that she looked like her and was told that they had the same mannerisms.  Her Aunt had died young, but the family never explained the details.

While listening to Samantha, I wondered what her father would think if he foundout that his deceased sister was now his daughter?  I also wondered why Samantha chose him as a parent rather than choosing one of her Aunts?  What was the karma they had to work through that brought them into parent/child relationship?

REGRESSION: Samantha regressed to 1950, the year in which Aunt Rose was born. Samantha was born in 1975 in this life.  Samantha reported that she saw her aunts, Aunt Rose’s sisters, gathered around the cradle staring down at Aunt Rose as a newborn baby. Samantha was able to see that her father, Aunt Rose’s brother, did not join his sisters around the cradle; instead he sat alone in a corner. 

 I progressed Samantha to the age of five, where she was surrounded by her Aunt Rose’s sisters, at their summer house. In a childish voice, she described the fun she had swimming in the lake, attending family picnics and playing games. When the summer ended, she hated to leave.  I asked Samantha what her name was in that life. She said it was Rose.

She continued telling me about a small pond, in which she and her brother would catch frogs and race them.

I progressed her to the age of ten, but Samantha, instead went to the age of twelve, grabbing her stomach, wincing in pain, crying for help, as she sat in my hypnosis chair. She saw herself rushed to the local hospital from her summer home, where doctors performed an emergency appendectomy just in time, preventing the possibility of it rupturing, and her possible death.  Recuperation took two weeks.

At fifteen, Rose fell in love with Rick, whom she described as “the most wonderful boy” she had ever met.  He was kind, gentle, yet strong and handsome.  Rick also thought that Rose was the most wonderful girl he had ever met. Both of them hoped their summer would never end.  When it did, they wrote back and forth, pledging their love and their future together forever. 

As we progressed to her sixteenth birthday, stiffening in the hypnosis chair, barely able to move. Samantha explained she was now stricken with polio, paralyzed from her waist down.  Her condition did not prevent Rick from continuing to pledge his undying love. 

Samantha, however, felt guilty about tying Rick down with a “cripple”.  Rick’s loyalty and love did not waiver, and he remained constant.  Samantha cringed in the chair, recalling the horrific pain and muscle cramps. 

As Aunt Rose, Samantha had tried to be what she considered, a trooper, to hide her pain from Rick, but he could see through her façade.  That year, Rose died from polio.        

LAST THOUGHT BEFORE DYING IN THAT LIFE:  Holding Rick’s hand, Rose told him, Don’t worry, we will be together again some day.  In turn, Rick vowed his faithfulness and love.

LESSON: self-love 

AWARENESS AND CONNECTION:  Believing that her crippled legs in that lifetime made her ugly, Samantha carried her self-esteem issues into the present life, thinking that people in this life also believe she is ugly.  Samantha instantly understood why she always felt that way here. We were both hopeful that would help her understand her feelings and let go of the energy around it. Samantha did become loving to herself and did start feeling more confident.

After the first session Samantha went home to ask her dad whether Aunt Rose had an appendectomy and had excruciating leg pain due to polio. Samantha was also curious about what had happened to Rick in that life, she wondered if he was still alive, and if he had remained true to his pledge of love to her forever. 

Samantha’s dad validated what Samantha had learned in her regression: Aunt Rose had had an appendicitis, and was crippled from the polio that later caused her death. Samantha’s father was surprised that Samantha knew about Rose’s appendicitis, something he had forgotten about until she reminded him. Samantha found out that Rick never married, and wondered if he is waiting to see her again in their next life. She wanted to visit him to see if he would recognize her and to see if his love traveled over space and time, through their mutual pledge of loving each other and being together forever. 

Her father expressed his regrets of not spending much time with Rose because she had spent most of her time with his sisters.  Samantha, as Rose, also regretted not spending enough time with her brother.  As father and daughter, they could finally have that time together fulfilling their karma.

Upon further contemplation, Samantha decided not to look for Rick, her lost love, now her father’s age, because she felt that meeting Rick might upset him or that he might not believe her.  Samantha was now sure that she is her Aunt Rose.

 

 

 

 

A Case Study in Past Life Regression Therapy: Severe Migraine Headaches

BACKGROUND:

In December of 2005, a client came to me presenting symptoms of severe migraine headaches.

During a history intake she informed me that since her baby had been born, three months earlier, she had been getting 17 migraines a week. When asked when she first remembered getting the first migraine in this life, she recounted it happening at the onset of her first menstruation. However, she would only get them once a month and only one day of her period.

The client told me she had been to many doctors, especially neurologist, to seek their help. They found nothing organically wrong with her and only offered painkillers. She felt that they didn’t help and that she could not function with her new baby in this pain. When a headache would come on she would have to go to bed, with blinds shut and the room darkened. Often she would vomit due to the pain. She said these made her feel “trapped.”

I received additional history about her family, her husband and the childbirth, none of which sounded suspicious regarding the headaches.

TREATMENT:

We agreed that I would put her under hypnosis and ask that she go to the root of the migraines, to see what was causing them.

When under hypnosis, my client went into a past lifetime around the early 1800s. She saw herself living in a small house in the country, on a farm. When asked to look back over the first 10 years of her life to see if anything significant happened, she contracted, and started to cry. She said her father had raped her after her mother past away. She became pregnant, feeling “trapped” and ashamed. She stayed at home most of the time doing chores and disassociating to cope. Through breath work and visualization I had her release the feeling of being “trapped” and the deep shame she carried. She was 13 years old when this happened.

As I progressed her further to 15-years-old, she saw herself walking in town with her baby. Feeling out of her body, she got hit by a horse and wagon, hitting her head on the street and dying.  Death came so fast she had no time to think of anything before she died.

I took her to find a guide in the spiritual dimension so we could ask some questions. When she found her guide we asked how that life affected her migraines in this life.

We were told that the rape, pregnancy, and death were all tied together. The head trauma at death resulted as she carried the trauma of conception. This explained why she presented with headaches both at menstruation and after childbirth. The body‘s cellular memory was triggered by her connection to age and the conception of her baby. Conception and head trauma once again revisited.

RESULTS:

My client called several months after our session to inform me that her migraines had disappeared but that she occasionally still gets headaches. When we asked her guide how many lifetimes does she need to release from to clear the headaches, we were told 3 more.

My client can now function as a mother and wife, without feeling ‘trapped”, or in severe pain. She will be coming to me to do the other 3 lifetimes so we can clear all of her headaches. Her doctors are amazed that she no longer suffers from her migraines.

What do we do after we die?

It was one year ago in September, the month I came into this world, that I lost my best friend, my cheerleader, my inspiration, my mentor and the most wonderful mother a child could have.

I used to worry about loosing her to a terrible death when I was a child. I worried she would be taken from me before I could grow up. I had dreams of her being murdered or leaving and never coming back. Thank you God- she lived independently for 97 wonderful years, always staying close to me, if not in distance, than by phone.

People always tried to explain that she was 97 and so I should be lucky to have had her all of those years and not make such a big deal that she passed. Believe me, the longer you have someone you love the harder it is to live without them.

I was blessed to be by her side while she was passing, whispering in her ear that it was ok to go, that we would all be ok. At that moment she gently slid away. I knew it would only be a short time before I could talk with her on the other side. My work and knowledge that we don’t die, that our spirit or energy lives on and loves us from the other side, gave me the consolation I needed to get through the void I would feel.

 A few weeks went by and by the grace of God I was in a workshop with my favorite channeler. He came up to me and said, “ Your mother is here. She wants to thank you for coming to rescue her. Your being there the last few weeks were a great comfort to her. She says that she didn’t have to have a long “Life Review” since she didn’t hurt a lot of people when she was alive. She says, she got to choose either to do something she always wanted to do when she was alive and never got to, or to relive any time on earth that made her feel happy. She chooses to live in a house she lived in when she was in her 30’s with my father, with all of the same furniture! She was so excited and thinks it is so great that she can relive that time again! She also thanks you for the pastrami sandwich you got her the night before she passed.”

After the channeling of my mother, I felt like I just had a phone conversation with her like we usually did when she was alive. I was thrilled to hear about her experience on the other side and that she was happy and with my dad. I was also grateful that she felt comforted by my being with her the last few weeks so she could go peacefully.

She also remarked that she loved her funeral and it was just as she hoped it would be.

In my next conversation with her I will ask her more questions about what she’s doing now. I will also ask questions about the other side, so we can get more information lifting the mystique around where we go and what happens to us when we die.

 

I look forward one day to reunite with her in between life or in our next life. We have not only shared 97 loving years together but many lifetimes as well. 

Past Life Insights

Hello Everyone!

As a pioneer in Past Life Regression Therapy and a certified Ericksonian Hypnotherapist for the past 25 years, I look forward to sharing my wisdom about past life and the amazing experiences of success my clients have had from this healing modality.

The spiritual wisdom that I have learned from my clients and work are about life, death, and in between life.