When we hear that a child has cancer or a newly wed got into a car accident and died, we react in horror, sadness, blame, and confusion.
We never really hear the other story.
I have been practicing Past Life Regression Therapy for the last 29 years and have had numerous psychic readings or channellings. I have learned so much from both and would like to share some of which can help you understand, the other story.
Our close friends, who live in Italy, and who are like family to us, had a child 22 years ago that was diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumor at 6 months old. We were all devastated to say the least. The father became so angry and pointed his finger to God and asked how could you do this to a small baby!! The mother was in fear of how to make the baby’s life comfortable until he died and what would happen to him after he died? Who would take care of him?
When we first went out to visit them after the diagnosis, we saw how loving and wonderful they were to him, his sisters and parents always around him rubbing his feet, talking with him, and sending him love whenever they were near him. I told my husband that I didn’t think this baby would make it past that week.
The following year we went to visit them again. This baby was still alive. He had become blind and his head had become hydrocephalic, so that he could not even sit up. Still, the family continued to love him and comfort him all day. One could feel the sadness they all held but never waivered in their love and care. Once again, I told my husband that the baby would not make it past that week.
After 6 years this beautiful boy died. We came every year watching their care, love, sadness and anger build. No matter how you know and prepare for such tragedy you can never really be prepared. The darkness entered the home filled with heavy hearts. His mom wondering still what has happened to him and who now would take care of him.
I offered to do a regression the next time I would come with his mom to see why they had to go through that with him. What was the karma?
I wanted to do something right away to help so offered to contact a medium who I heard was great at making touch with those who passed over and get any messages she would have from their son. They were a bit skeptical and understandably so. Could he or would he be found and what could he say. His mom was still hopeful and agreed.
I contacted the medium and asked her if she could make touch with our good friends son and I gave her his name only. She started to laugh. I asked her what was so funny, a bit upset that she could find something funny about the death of this child. She said, “He is speaking Italian to me and I don’t understand Italian! Was he from Italy or Italian? I was blown away immediately. Yes! I answered and asked what did he say? She said
“Bella Laminate”, that he wanted his family to live life likes a beautiful light! That he wanted to thank his sister for rubbing his feet, that contact was so important to him. To thank his mom for talking to him and leaving the window open so he could hear the children play. He said to please tell them, not to be sad for him. That he chose to come into this world for just a short time. He needed to be able to come in with love from the family and be released with love from them, for just this short period, so he could evolve to the next plane. He said he was so grateful for them fulfilling that act for him for now he has evolved and is so happy! He wanted them to know that he was more than fine and whole with no more tumor. He loved where he was and felt so lucky he chose them for that short time.
The mom was so relieved to hear his words from the channelling, since all he mentioned was true about his sisters rubbing his feet, the window that was left open, the conversations and constant love. She was so happy to hear he was fine and whole, not suffering and that they could help him achieve his growth on the other side. No longer did she blame God, feel hopeless, helpless, and sad. Now she understood, the other story, of why her son came into this life for just a short visit.
We make judgments about things we experience and hear without ever really knowing the other story. The story of why we came here and why we had to go through what we have. I do believe we life script before we come here, choosing sometimes-difficult traumas, illnesses, relationships, and situations for certain reasons. Most of the time it is to teach us certain lessons. We need to learn many but one dominant one usually follows us around in life until we learn it. We would never choose these things in our physical and emotional bodies, but do so on the other side where we can objectively choose what we need to grow spiritually. In this case this child scripted to come for just a short while to learn how to enter this world and leave it in love.
When we go through things in our life that make no sense and seem so devastating, stop and think, what is the other story. We have this reality story, but what is the spiritual story and why?